The obvious one is that he could be an ain't sh!t dude who borrows money and doesn't pay it back lol. If you know a guy who can't keep a male friend, that means there could be a few things going one. Guys who hang out with that one or 2 special home boys are usually fµck!ng, no if, ands, or buts about it.ĥ) Guys who have a revolving door of male friends. Let's face it, we all know what netflix and chill means, but how many of y'all know what "hanging with the homies/fellas/boys" truly mean? Men are social creatures when there's something in it for them. side eye.Ĥ) Guys who have homies who you think are on the DL. There were tons of men there and they weren't peeing. I was going to the only public restroom that I knew of and he was like "nah, come here." I was like, "how do you know about this secret bathroom?" The kicker was it was a legit cesspool. He and I would hang out, nothing happened between us, but one day we were at the mall and I had to pee. Lmfao.ģ) Guys who know where the hidden bathrooms are in the mall. Yet the guy you like is upset and pressed about them? The real kicker is how the straight guy who never goes to church brings up how the Bible says it's a sin. Why do I say that? What man is worried about a gay/bi guy? If anything, those are the guys your guy SHOULD want you around, seeing as those guys won't being trying to fµck you. If there's a guy in your life who has a lot of sh!t to say, positive or negative, about your openly gay/bi guy friends, he's probably on the DL. Black women and gay guys go together like white on rice. Then he was like "I won't call you a f-word anymore if you suck mine."Ģ) Guys who know your gay/bi friends and always find ways to bring them up, even if negatively. He was like "so you have sucked dick." I told him I had. ![]() I thought the guy hated me until I finally confronted him."Dude, what's your fµck!ng problem? Please just leave me alone." And he was like "what if I don't got a problem?" And I was like "NO, you do have a problem because you're always calling me a f-word." He told me he was just playing. One of my earliest experiences, besides the chatline, was a guy who constantly used the f-word pejorative whenever he saw me. What do I mean by this? Well, if you know a guy who is always saying another man is gay, or another man shouldn't be watching this show or that show, or talking about the 'gay agenda' then he's probably on the DL. ![]() With that out of the way, here are the 5 biggest ways to spot a DL dude.ġ) Guys who are obsessed with policing other guys' masculinity. I have also known guys who had 4 baby mommas and they were getting fµcked on the DL every other Friday night. I've known guys who had high pitched voices and they have never sucked a dick or thought about it. The people who can claim they can "spot" a DL dude by how he walks, talks, dresses, and ish are stupid and being superficial fucks. You will have to have some interactions with a guy before you can spot his DL ways or not. Take it with a grain of salt if you want, but remember, Cis Gawd usually ain't wrong. This info is only intended for educational purposes. This is from my experience, and may or may not apply to guys you know or guys in your life. I was kiking with Kas in another thread of mine that's in XES and she suggested that I post a thread about how to spot a DL dude for all the ladies out there who want to know.
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